A pair of dice in a net bag was the perfect favor for a board game-themed wedding. Photo by Johnny Knight.
I had an interesting experience lately with a client who was from South America. He was not familiar with what we mean by a wedding favor, and that got me wondering: What, exactly, is a wedding favor? How is it defined?
A wedding favor is a small gift given by the couple to their guests as a token of their appreciation for being there.
What types of things are typically given as favors? Sugared (or Jordan) almonds are one well-known type of favor. A small handful of almonds (sometimes five) are tied in a net or lace bag. I’ve also seen a pair of chocolate candies in a presentation box as favors. These are probably the more traditional types of favors.
Other things I’ve seen as favors have a very diverse range: a flowerpot with seed paper with the couple’s names and wedding date; handmade soaps; a pair of dice; cat-shaped cookies; beeswax candles; trivia books; and trilobite-shaped chocolates.
The trend I’ve seen is to have the favor reflect the couple’s interests or tastes, or to coincide with the wedding’s theme, if it has one. It’s a nice touch if the favor has a personal meaning that is communicated to the guests.
It’s possible to go overboard with favors. Think small and personal, rather than large or outrageous. With care and good taste, almost anything can be a favor. And if you’re in doubt, be sure to ask your wedding planner.
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