Feb 11, 2019 | Other Events
I got photos from J. Hollander Photography from the bar mitzvah I worked on in December. I want to share some of the fun with you!
This was a family who described themselves as not being very fancy. For their son’s bar mitzvah, they decided against an upscale Saturday night party in favor of a casual, laid-back, sports-themed party, with lots of fun stuff for the kids and a good time for the adults. This one was not at all about how it looked; it was all about the experience for everyone.
In keeping with the low-key theme, they rented out the Fleetwood-Jourdain Community Center in Evanston, a family-centric location with a community room and adjoining gym.
The community room was where people gathered and had dinner. But the real attraction was in the next room where Playground Games had set up their inflatable games, along with attractive lighting and fun music.
We mustn’t forget dinner, though! Marcello’s did their usual fine job with the pizza buffet (and plenty of other food, too).
Their dessert buffet was a big hit, too.
In the community room, there were plenty of fun things to do. There was a selfie-station with lots and lots of sports-themed props, a large Connect Four game, and a cornhole game.
But the center of the party really was in the gym. The kids played the games, the adults watched, and, sometimes, the adults joined in the fun.
I’m not quite sure what this person is doing, but I think they were having fun:
And finally, a few photos of the details. First, centerpieces that the father of the bar mitzvah boy designed and created. He even designed a logo!
And the “guest book.”
And the party favors–perfect for a winter event!
Feb 4, 2019 | Eco-Friendly Events, wedding planning
Popcorn wedding favors? Yes, please! There were none of these left at the end of the night.
Here is one fairly easy way to make your wedding (or other party) more eco-friendly: Think about your wedding favors.
The greenest thing you could possibly do with favors would be to have no favors at all. After all, if there’s no favor, then there’s no waste. But that is not the way everyone wants to have things. So, if you are going to give favors, here are three things to consider: the type of favor, the place of manufacture, and the quantity to buy.
Probably the least sustainable type of wedding favor is the small object imprinted with the couple’s name and wedding date, especially if it is something plastic. Obviously, there are exceptions, but these types of things are the things that most people throw out after a while. It’s a lot of waste. A small object that is recyclable, compostable, or growable is a step in a cleaner direction. Something consumable or really useful might be even better. Food and beverages probably won’t go to waste–although you might want to give some thought to the type of containers they are in. Plastic cupcake boxes or nylon almond bags are likely to generate waste. Glass bottles are more likely to be recycled. Donations in lieu of favors sidestep the issues of waste entirely–and you could give money to an organization that works on issues of sustainability, if that is your wish. There is a whole range of possibilities here (and others I’m sure I’ve missed) that allow you to make your celebration more eco-friendly.
If you do decide to give your guests a small token, consider where and how it is made. Things that are cheaply made overseas have to be shipped here, which is a lot less sustainable than things made locally. You might also want to consider the ethical issues of cheaply made goods: They are generally made by people (sometimes children or prisoners) who are paid less than a fair wage. While it often costs more to buy from a local producer, at least you can verify the conditions of manufacture to be sure the creators are being paid fairly.
The other thing to consider is how many things to buy for your guests. In my experience, there are almost always favors left over at the end of the night (unless it’s a very popular food item). Often, guests will take one favor per household, rather than one per person. Some people just don’t want them. When you are deciding what kind of favor to get, take this fact into account. If you buy one per guest, you may well have to figure out what to do with the leftovers. You might want to purchase fewer than the number of guests so you don’t have to solve that puzzle. Or be sure to buy something that is easy to donate or resell.
While there are much bigger things you can do to green your wedding, this one is fairly easy and can be inexpensive. It’s something within the reach of many more people than, say, serving only organic local food. So, if you want to have a more sustainable celebration, you can start here. It’s always better to do something than to do nothing.
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